Children, Youth and Families

Having Trouble Deciding?

Here are some questions to consider when deciding whether to adopt a child:

• Why do I want to adopt a child?
• Can I provide a stable home for a child?
• Am I ready to open my heart to another's needs?
• Is this child just a substitute for a lost child or a person in his/her own right?
• Am I willing to go through all the paperwork and various other requirements to have a child?
• How will I handle friends' and family's questions and comments about adoption?
• Can I love this child as my own?
• How will I deal with my child's questions about birth parents?
• When will I tell my child about adoption?
• Can I afford to take another person into my family?

Traits of Successful Adoption Families:

• A sense of humor
• A true acceptance of the child's differences
• The ability to measure success in small steps
• A firm belief in committment